Your period arrives a week early or late, your cycle lasts 25 days one month and 38 the next, you never really know when to expect your next period. You are not alone, and no, your body is not defective. Irregular cycles affect a lot of women, at different times in their lives. Between tracking apps that display "?" instead of a date, unexpectedly stained panties, and the anxiety of not knowing if it's serious, it's understandable how frustrating it can be.
This article unravels everything: what we really mean by "irregular periods," the possible causes (from the trivial to the medical), situations where it's normal (teenagers, menopause, postpartum), how to manage on a daily basis, and above all, when you really need to worry. The goal is to stop panicking for nothing, but to know how to spot the signs that warrant a consultation.
The essentials to remember about irregular periods
Irregular Periods: What Does It Really Mean?
Before we talk about irregularity, we need to define what a "regular" cycle is. And spoiler: it's not necessarily exactly 28 days.
What is a Regular Cycle?
A menstrual cycle is counted from the first day of your period to the first day of your next period. Contrary to popular belief, a regular cycle does not necessarily last 28 days. The length considered normal is between 25 and 35 daysAs long as your cycle stays within this range and doesn't vary more than 7-8 days from month to month, it is considered regular.
💡 Concrete example : If your cycles last 26 days, then 30 days, then 28 days, that's perfectly normal. A few days' variation is natural. But if you go from 25 days to 40 days and then to 22 days, then we're talking about irregularity.
So, What Are Irregular Periods?
We talk about irregular periods or cycles in several situations:
Causes of Irregular Periods
Irregular cycles have many possible causes. Some are temporary and benign, while others require medical attention. Here are the main ones.
Hormonal and Medical Causes
1. Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS)
PCOS is the leading cause of irregular cycles. It's a hormonal imbalance that causes an excess of male hormones (androgens), disrupting ovulation. The result: very long cycles (40-60 days, or even several months without a period), often accompanied by acne, excessive hair growth, and weight gain.
If you recognize yourself : Very spaced cycles + signs of hyperandrogenism (acne, hairiness, hair loss) + difficulty losing weight → Consult for a PCOS diagnosis.
2. Thyroid Disorders
Hypothyroidism (underactive thyroid) and hyperthyroidism (overactive thyroid) both disrupt the menstrual cycle. Hypothyroidism often causes long cycles and heavy periods, while hyperthyroidism can cause short cycles or missed periods. Associated symptoms include severe fatigue, unexplained weight gain/loss, and feeling cold or hot.
3. Hyperprolactinemia
Too high a level of prolactin (the breastfeeding hormone) can block ovulation and cause very irregular cycles or no periods at all. Associated signs: milk flow from the breasts when not breastfeeding (galactorrhea), decreased libido.
4. Endometriosis and Fibroids
Endometriosis can cause uncontrolled bleeding and intense pain. Uterine fibroids (benign tumors) often cause very heavy periods and bleeding between cycles. Both conditions require gynecological monitoring.
Lifestyle-Related Causes
Stress (#1 Cause of Temporary Irregularities)
Intense or chronic stress disrupts the hypothalamus-pituitary-ovarian hormonal axis. Your body, in "survival mode," can put ovulation on hold. The result: longer cycles, late periods, or no periods at all for several months. A 2018 Korean study showed that women with high levels of perceived stress were 1,7 times more likely to have irregular cycles.
Risky situations : Exams, moving, breakup, bereavement, pressure at work, period of crisis (health, personal). The body interprets stress as a danger signal and postpones reproduction until "later".
Significant Weight Variations
Rapid weight loss or gain of more than 10% of body weight can disrupt the cycle. Adipose tissue produces hormones (especially estrogen). Too much or too little fat disrupts hormonal balance.
- Significant weight loss (crash diet, eating disorders): Can completely stop periods (amenorrhea)
- Overweight or obese : Associated with irregular cycles, particularly due to insulin resistance and excess estrogen
- Very low BMI (<18,5): Periods often absent or very spaced out
Intensive Sport
Highly intensive physical activity can cause what is known as "athlete's amenorrhea." The body, subjected to significant physical stress and high energy expenditure, shuts down ovulation. This is common among elite athletes, gymnasts, professional dancers, and marathon runners.
Travel and Jet Lag
Changing time zones disrupts your internal biological clock and can delay ovulation. A significant jet lag can cause your period to arrive a few days early or late. This is usually temporary.
Contraception and Medications
Hormonal contraceptives
The pill, implant, and hormonal IUD block ovulation and create an artificial cycle. At the beginning of treatment or after stopping, cycles can be chaotic for several months (usually 3 to 6 months). This is the time for your body to return to its natural rhythm.
Stopping the pill and irregular periods : Very common. Your cycles take time to regulate after years on the pill. If after 6 months it's still chaos, seek medical help.
Copper IUD and Irregular Periods
The copper IUD doesn't contain hormones, but it can cause longer cycles, heavier periods, and sometimes spotting between periods. This is a common side effect, not an irregularity per se, but it can feel like your cycle is out of whack.
Other Medicines
Certain medications can disrupt the cycle: antipsychotics, long-term corticosteroids, blood thinners, epilepsy treatments. If you suspect a link, talk to your doctor.
Situations Where Irregular Cycles Are Normal
There are times in life when having irregular cycles is perfectly physiological and expected. You are not "abnormal," your body is adapting.
Irregular Periods in Adolescence
In the first few years after menstruation (menarche), cycles are almost always irregular. This is normal: the hormonal axis is still in its infancy, and ovulation doesn't happen overnight.
Normal teenage timeline
First year : Cycles between 21 and 45 days, very variable. Sometimes 3 months without a period, then 2 cycles close together. It's a complete mess and that's OK.
2s-3s : Cycles are beginning to move closer to the adult range (24-38 days) but remain variable.
After 3-6 years : Most cycles become completely regular. If this is still not the case after 6 years of periods, a consultation may be useful to check for PCOS or another underlying cause.
Irregular Periods After Childbirth and Breastfeeding
After giving birth, it takes time for your cycles to return to normal. This is called the return of menstruation, and it's rarely regular right away.
💡 Why is it anarchic? Prolactin (the breastfeeding hormone) blocks ovulation. As long as you breastfeed frequently, prolactin remains high and prevents the cycle from restarting normally. When breastfeeding decreases, prolactin drops, and ovulation resumes... but not in a linear fashion. Hence the chaos.
Irregular Periods and Menopause
Between the ages of 40 and 55 (on average, at 51), your ovaries begin to function less well. This is perimenopause, and it is systematically accompanied by irregular cycles.
What is normal in perimenopause
- Cycles that gradually lengthen (35, 40, 50 days, etc.)
- Cycles that suddenly shorten (15-20 days)
- Completely unpredictable alternation of short/long cycles
- Periods absent for 2-3 months, then return
- Very heavy flow then very light
- Spotting between periods
Be careful though : Even if the irregularity is normal, very heavy or post-menopausal bleeding (after 12 months without periods) requires a consultation to rule out any pathology.
Irregular Cycle: How to Calculate Your Ovulation?
This is THE question when you have irregular cycles and want to get pregnant (or, on the contrary, avoid pregnancy). With a typical 28-day cycle, ovulation occurs around day 14. But with a cycle that varies between 25 and 40 days? It gets more complicated.
The 14 Day Rule (Which Doesn't Always Work)
Ovulation usually occurs 14 days before the start of the next period (relatively fixed luteal phase). The problem with irregular cycles is that you don't know when your next period will arrive. So you can't count backward.
💡 Example : If your cycle is 35 days long, you're probably ovulating around day 21 (35-14). If your cycle is 26 days long, it's more likely day 12. But since you don't know in advance whether this cycle will be 26 or 35 days long, you can't predict.
Methods to Detect Ovulation
Ovulation Tests (LH)
How it works : You take a urine test every day that detects the LH (luteinizing hormone) surge that precedes ovulation by 24-36 hours.
With an irregular cycle: Start testing around days 10-12 and continue until you reach a peak. Disadvantage: It can be expensive if your cycles are very long (you can test for 15-20 days).
Reliability: Very good for detecting ovulation. Be careful though if you have PCOS: you can have multiple LH surges without actual ovulation.
Basal Temperature
How it works : You take your temperature every morning when you wake up (even before getting up). After ovulation, your temperature rises by 0,3 to 0,5°C and remains high until your next period.
With an irregular cycle: This allows you to retrospectively confirm that you have ovulated, and after a few cycles, to spot a pattern. But it does not predict future ovulation (you notice it after the fact).
Reliability: Good for confirming ovulation. Restrictive on a daily basis.
Cervical Mucus Observation
How it works : Before ovulation, your cervical mucus becomes abundant, clear, and stringy (like raw egg white). This is a sign that your body is preparing to ovulate.
With an irregular cycle: Very useful for identifying your fertile window in real time. Free and without equipment. Requires a little practice to observe properly.
Fertility Apps and Monitors
Apps like Clue, Flo, or devices like Ava, Tempdrop, and Clearblue Monitor can help. But be careful: predictive algorithms don't work well with highly irregular cycles. Instead, opt for methods based on real-time observation (temperature, tests, mucus).
Irregular Periods and Fertility
The question that causes a lot of anxiety: "If my cycles are irregular, can I get pregnant?" The answer is nuanced.
Irregular Cycles ≠ Infertility
Having irregular cycles makes it harder to conceive (because you don't know when you're ovulating), but it doesn't mean you're infertile. Many women with irregular cycles get pregnant naturally; it just takes longer.
The real problem : Irregularity can be a sign of anovulation (absence of ovulation). If you don't ovulate at all, you can't get pregnant. But if you ovulate unpredictably (sometimes on day 15, sometime on day 30), it's just harder to pinpoint.
How Long Should I Wait Before Consulting?
With regular cycles, it is recommended to consult after 12 months of unsuccessful attempts (6 months if you are over 35). With irregular cycles, you can consult earlier.
Consult after 6 months if:
- Your cycles regularly exceed 35-40 days
- You suspect anovulation (no fertile mucus, no temperature spike)
- You are over 35 years old
- You have signs of PCOS, endometriosis or other pathology
Unpredictable Cycles? Always Be Prepared
With irregular periods, it's hard to predict. Our Period Panties protect you at all times, even when your period arrives unexpectedly.
What to do to regulate your cycles?
Depending on the cause of your irregular cycles, solutions vary. But there are a few things that work in the majority of cases.
Natural Approaches and Healthy Living
1. Manage Stress
Easier said than done, but it's often the key. Chronic stress is the number one enemy of a regular cycle. Concrete solutions:
- Meditation, cardiac coherence (5 minutes a day is enough)
- Yoga, sophrology
- Sufficient sleep (7-8 hours minimum)
- Therapy if stress is overwhelming
2. Stabilize Your Weight
If you've lost or gained a lot of weight quickly, getting back to a stable weight can help regulate your cycles. You don't have to be thin, just stable.
For PCOS and overweight: Losing just 5-10% of body weight can restore ovulation in 50-70% of cases.
3. Anti-Inflammatory Diet
Favor foods that support hormonal balance:
- Green vegetables, fresh fruits
- Quality proteins (fish, eggs, legumes)
- Good fats (omega-3: oily fish, nuts, flaxseed oil)
- Limit refined sugars and ultra-processed products
- Iron and vitamin C (to compensate for heavy periods)
4. Moderate Physical Activity
Regular exercise improves insulin sensitivity and reduces stress. Aim for 150 minutes of moderate activity per week. Be careful not to overdo it (daily intensive exercise can actually disrupt your insulin cycles).
Medical Treatments
Knowing How to Spot the Warning Signs
Irregular cycles aren't always serious. But there are some signs that warrant prompt consultation to rule out underlying conditions.
Consult if you observe
- Complete absence of periods for 3 months or more (excluding pregnancy, breastfeeding, menopause)
- Very heavy bleeding which require you to change protection every hour, with significant clots
- Severe pelvic pain that prevent you from living normally
- Bleeding between periods repeatedly
- Sudden and unexplained change of your cycle (you were regular and suddenly everything goes wrong)
- Signs of hyperandrogenism : excessive hair growth that appears suddenly, severe acne, hair loss
- Worrisome associated symptoms : extreme fatigue, rapid weight gain/loss, fever, abdominal pain
- You have been trying to conceive for 6-12 months unsuccessful with irregular cycles
💡 Assessment to request : If you consult for irregular cycles, your doctor may prescribe: hormonal dosages (FSH, LH, estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, prolactin, TSH), pelvic ultrasound, metabolic assessment (blood sugar, insulin) depending on your situation.
Stop Feeling Guilty
Irregular cycles are very common and often harmless. Having a cycle that varies between 25 and 35 days is normal. Anything longer or shorter than this, or with more than 8 days of variation from one month to the next, is considered irregular. The most common causes are stress, PCOS, thyroid disorders, weight fluctuations, contraception, intensive exercise, or hormonal changes related to adolescence, menopause, or breastfeeding.
Irregular cycles sometimes make it difficult to identify ovulation without indicating infertility. By observing cervical mucus, basal temperature, or with ovulation tests, it is still possible to identify your fertile window. To promote regularity: manage stress, stabilize your weight, adopt a balanced diet, and seek medical advice if problems persist (prolonged amenorrhea, intense pain, abnormal bleeding). In the majority of cases, these variations simply reflect the body's natural adaptation.
Sources & Scientific References
This article is based on validated scientific studies and recent medical data on irregular menstrual cycles.
Main studies on irregular cycles
- Bae J, Park S, Kwon JW. (2018). Factors associated with menstrual cycle irregularity and menopause. BMC Women's Health. DOI: 10.1186 / s12905-018-0528-x – Study showing the impact of stress, smoking and obesity on irregular cycles
- Alsuwaidi HA, et al. (2023). The Impact of Irregular Menstruation on Health: A Review of the Literature. Cureus. DOI: 10.7759/cureus.50203 – Systematic review linking irregular cycles to various health problems
- Rostami Dovom M, et al. (2016). Menstrual Cycle Irregularity and Metabolic Disorders: A Population-Based Prospective Study. PLoS One. DOI: 10.1371/journal.pone.0168402 – 15-year prospective study showing increased risk of type 2 diabetes with irregular cycles
- Solomon CG, et al. (2001). Long or highly irregular menstrual cycles as a marker for risk of type 2 diabetes mellitus. JAMA. DOI: 10.1001/jama.286.19.2421
- Wang YX, et al. (2022). Menstrual cycle regularity and length across the reproductive lifespan and risk of cardiovascular disease. JAMA Network Open. DOI: 10.1001/jamanetworkopen.2022.38513
- Teede HJ, et al. (2023). Recommendations from the 2023 International Evidence-based Guideline for the Assessment and Management of Polycystic Ovary Syndrome. Human Reproduction. DOI: 10.1093/humrep/dead156 – Guidelines on PCOS, the leading cause of irregular cycles
Additional references
- Clue by Biowink. What is an irregular menstrual cycle. Evidence-based reproductive health information.
- American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. Abnormal Uterine Bleeding. Clinical guidelines.
Footnotes : DOI links provide direct access to the original scientific publications. This article will be updated regularly to reflect the latest medical knowledge.
Medical warning : This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. If you have concerns about your menstrual cycles or experience any concerning symptoms, consult a gynecologist, midwife, or doctor.
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